I am pleased to have extra attention to my blog after the huge success of Fifty Shades of Grey, the bondage story that’s taking everything by storm. I’ve actually been getting emails from people asking about bondage toys for beginners. A search of bondage toys shows some scrap stuff like masks and hoods and torturous things, but the average couple is not interest in overly freaky things so i did some research for you to fins some really good non scrap bondage toys. www.theadulttoyshop.com/bondage is a cool stop, it’s a sex shop but I found that a sex toy store is going to offer simpler bondage toys then a BDSM emporium which tends to deal in a scarier staff. here are a few toys that I liked that I think you will too:
If anyone saw the season opener of the bachelor, the girl who was obsessed with the book brought her tie and did her sexy butt shaking dance. it was hilarious to watch but i felt sorry fort the poor girl, Shawn is a religious nice guy who would totally be turned off by actions such as this – until he’s married.www.newsnet5.com has the video with exit interview incase anyone missed it!
Handcuffs & Ties
Get both. I think ties are better then cuffs however it allows you to move about freely and you can toe your partner in various places. and tie them to things which is quite fin. handcuffs will only put marks in the wood of your bed frame and don’t offer the same vestibule.
The spanking is a must have. You cant tie up someone without a spanking somewhere along the way, A lighter whip with tassels is fun as the whooshing noise while is traverses the air on the air to your partners butt is kind of cool too. The crop of stiffer whip leaves a stringer pinch which I find too much for a beginner. It’s more serious tool, not as silly and fun. I think crops go with leather probably from the equestrian association.
Nipple clamps are a cool addition that most people don’t think about. The nipple squeeze is ever present during your sex play. It’s not always needed but I think it;s something nice to employ. Try the adjustable screw does not clamp too hard because i found that some are way over the top and beginners usually don’t appreciate the pinch as much as experts do. it comes back to tolerance, the more you use nipple clamps the higher tolerance you re body has there a stronger pinch will be needed in the future. don jump in to the deepens yet, start light and enjoy your way up to the dominance and submissive sex games it;s fantastic and fun, just like the book claims!